14 Signs You're Kinky in the Bedroom

When it comes to sex, you might see yourself as being slightly if not totally vanilla. But just because your'e not begging to be cuffed and whipped doesn't mean you don't have a little kink in you. There are a variety of ways to tell if you are freakier than you originally thought. Here are some of the biggest indicators. Have you ever done any of the following during a sexual encounter, or perhaps had them done to you? Then chances are you're not all that vanilla!

1. Pulled their hair

2. Slapped or smacked their butt

3. Bitten their neck or other parts of their body

4. Played with a little aggression in between the sheets

5. Used force on them, or perhaps domination

6. Played out a fantasy given a certain scenario or specific role

7. Wrapped your hands around their neck

8. Blindfolded them

9. Physically restrained them

10. Tied them up

11. Performed degrading acts on them

12. Made them perform a humiliating act on you

13. Commanded them to perform sexual acts on you

14. Called them cruel names

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Any of these seem familiar? Then you're teetering on the edge of BDSM. What's that you might ask?

Here's a deeper look:

Bondage and Discipline

The "B" and "D" in BDSM focus on using instructions, rules or punishments to control or reward behavior for the purpose of sexual pleasure.

If you hold your partner's hands back, or put them in some hot handcuffs, then you're practicing bondage. As for discipline, if you use whips for physical punishment or psychological punishment, like denying them sex or forbidding them to reach orgasm, you are doing this.

Sadism and Masochism

Two European writers Marquis de Sade and Leopold von Sacher-Masoch coined this term due to their names. They recorded how sexual pleasure could be achieved through both giving as well as receiving pain as a means of sexual expression.  Think of whips, chains, paddles, belts and hot candle wax for instance. Love bites, bruises and welts fall into this category as well. So, if you enjoy rough sex, this style of play might be fun for you.

Domination and Submission

Ever acted out a fantasy where you played either the person in control or the submissive type? Then you are taking part in this style of sexual play. This is known to be the most emotional of BDSM, and some couples who prefer it never even physically touch each other. They may perform this on the phone, Skype or via email for instance.

It's important to remember that both partners should express consent before taking part in BDSM, however.

So, do you play it as safe as you thought, or did you discover something new about you sexual desires?

Source: Women's Health

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