37 Statistics That Matter If You Are Trying To Find Love In America

Love is hard to find at the best of times. Here is a whole whack of things to consider if you are searching for 'the one' in the good ol' U.S. of A.
  1. If you date for three months then it’s likely you’ll be dating for four years.
  2. Big cities are worse for meeting people. Especially, Los Angeles, New York and Miami.
  3. Smaller cities that have a sizeable population are best. Colorado Springs, El Paso, and Louisville all indicate higher rates of relationship formation.
  4. San Francisco has the highest rate of single males in the country. Memphis, TN has the highest rate of single females.
  5. Divorce rates are not nearly as high as one might think in terms of grown adults. The average is brought down by people who marry early.
  6. If you get married or move in with someone at the age of 18 then there’s a 60% chance you’ll divorce or break up.
  7. Wait until you’re 23 and those breakup chances drop to 30%.
  8. Over the past 50 years, the number of people living together without getting married has increased 900%
  9. Two thirds of all couples married in 2012 had already lived together for two or more years before they took the plunge.
  10. Fewer than a quarter of all Americans disapprove of people living together without being married. In 1981, that disapproval number was at 45%.
  11. 87% of Americans approve of interracial marriages. That’s an increase of 38% since 1991.
  12. Children growing up in marriages where there is lots of conflict are less likely to be well adjusted. In these cases, divorce often comes as an emotional relief to the child.
  13. Although, children of divorce experience social and emotional troubles at a rate that is 15% higher than children whose parents aren't divorced.
  14. If you are a child of divorce, you are more likely to get one yourself. If both partners have divorced parents, the likelihood of divorce increases by 200%. If you're 18 when you marry and your parents are divorced, the likelihood goes up to 260%.
  15. Wait until you're at least 23. Seriously.
  16. If you wait until 35 and your partner is the same age, there is a 5% chance of divorce.
  17. Surveys show that only 2% of men and 9% of women have ever formed a relationship with someone they met at a bar.
  18. Ladies, if he hasn’t called you within 24 hours after a date then there’s only a 12% chance he ever will.
  19. 23% of men and women still ask friends to tell their love interest that they “like” them. Very mature.
  20. Long distance relationships only account for 2.9% of all relationships, a third of them are college students, and the average lifetime of the relationships is four and a half months.
  21. Statistically, women dating online state that they prefer “nice guys” to “bad guys” or a “bit of both.” Men dating online claim they prefer “the modern career girl” over the “next door type.
  22. 26-year-old women have more online pursuers than the average man but, at age 48, men have twice as many online pursuers as the average women.
  23. Women online lie about their weight, physical build, and their age. Men lie about their age, their height, and their income.
  24. A third of women engaged in online dating have sex on the first date.
  25. The number one source of arguments in relationships is money.
  26. In most relationships, the man is about 5 years older than the woman.
  27. According to an Esquire survey, 51% of women offer to pick up the check on a first date.
  28. 57% of Americans have had sex outdoors. 48% of American women have faked an orgasm. 30% of men over 30 have paid for sex.
  29. 34% of women say they think about sex every day and only 59% say they enjoy it a “great deal.” 70% of men think of it every day and 83% enjoy it a great deal.
  30. On average, men sleep around three times as much as women. The median number for women is 3 partners in a lifetime. For men, it is 8 partners.
  31. Only 10% of all women have had more than 11 sexual partners in their lifetime. A full 38% of men have and 20% of men have slept with more than 21 different women.
  32. A quarter of women almost never have an orgasm during sex. On the other hand, 75% of women usually or often do. Only 3% of men almost never do.
  33. Half of women feel they were too young the first time they had sex.
  34. Most people who cheat are 50 years of age and older (21%). Only 8% of people between the ages of 18-29 admit to ever cheating.
  35. Almost 70% of cheaters cheat with friends.
  36. Only a third of men have actually fantasized about a threesome.
  37. According to Psychology Today, the number one predictor of a relationship’s success is trust. This includes being reliable, dependable, and a source of real support during tough times.

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