For men, orgasms are pretty easy and straightforward but for women, it is often a different story
. According to the Journal of S*xual Medicine
, vaginal and clitoral orgasms are completely different sensations. Think about that for a moment. That actually means lots of ways to achieve the big O. Whether you are looking for G-Spot, vaginal, clitoral or blended fun, these 4 positions can give you a good starting point. Have a look, make a date and earth shattering orgasms won't likely be far behind.
For Clitoral Fun
The Pretzel aka The Camel Ride
Lie on your left side and have him straddle your left leg. Wrap your right leg around the right side of his waist, giving him full access to your vagina. This position is an upgrade to your standard missionary. It allows for deep, slow penetration. Jen Landa, M.D., Chief Medical Officer of BodyLogicMD and author of The S*x Drive Solution for Women,
explains that "most women find sex much more pleasurable when it's not just constant thrusting." This position gives him the ability to manually stimulate your clitoris. But don't just rely on the hands, if he pulls out, he can hold his penis in his left hand and rub the head against your clitoris. Once you are climbing the walls, he can slip back in and orgasm will be imminent. Don't be afraid to ask for it.
Looking for the G-Spot?
The Standing Dragon aka Crouching Tiger, Hidden Serpent
Position yourself on all fours at the edge of the bed. Arch your back, lifting your butt upwards. Added tip: If he stands with his legs outside of yours and uses his thighs to push your knees together, it will tighten your vagina around his penis making this extra special fun for him too. This position is a great way to stimulate the G-Spot.
Aching for a Vaginal Orgasm?
The Flatiron aka Downward Dog
Lie face down on the bed with your knees slightly bent and your hips slightly raised. To make this more comfortable for you and maximize the angle of your hips, try slipping a pillow under your abdomen. From here, he is free to enter you from behind. He should keep his weight off of you by propping himself up with his arms. This position creates a super tight fit which will make him feel larger to you, intensifying your pleasure. To last longer in this position, he should aim for shallow thrusts and deep breathing.
For Dual Pleasure
The Pole Position aka The Thighmaster
Have him lie on his back with one leg bent and the other stretched flat. Straddle his raised leg, with a thigh on either side and lower yourself onto him, facing towards his toes. Use his leg for support as your rock your hips up and down. This position provides all the benefits of being on top with a little extra added in. The position of his bent leg allows you to rub against his thigh which stimulates the clitoris
So, if you're looking to add something new to your repertoire, why not give these a try. What are you waiting for? Tonight, works.