5 Questions Your Fiancé Should Be Able To Answer Honestly

Before you take the plunge and say "I Do", you should have an open discussion with your fiancé about the future. These 5 questions are great tools to creating that dialogue and giving you a perspective on what may lie ahead in your future: #1 Why do you love me? If your partner cannot answer why he or she loves you with details, it could be a signal for uncertainty down the road. "Because I love you" is not the response you want to obtain. "Because you're smart/witty/brave/compassionate" is what you want to hear. #2 Why do you want to spend your life with me? Again, "Because I love you" is not what you want as an answer. Your partner should be able to explain the different life experiences he or she wants to share with you (e.g. travelling, having children, owning a house). #3 Will you be there with me through hard times? As wonderful as your relationship may seem now, there will a come time when skies turn grey. But the choice to be there for each other through those times is part of marriage. #4 Do you want children? It is important to discuss your future family goals with your partner. Parenting is another component you must factor into your marriage, and it is vital you two are aligned with your future goals. #5 If our time together was cut short, will you promise to live on and find happiness? A difficult conversation to have, but it is important that you let your partner know that you wish them not to let your potential premature passing destroy them. What are some questions you found helpful before entering marriage? Share your advice with us! Do you follow us on Instagram? [caption id="attachment_98865" align="alignnone" width="100"] @BodyRockTV[/caption]