Never Do or Say These 6 Things When You're Naked

When it comes to your body and sex, you should never find yourself apologizing for your natural, beautiful state. You are a gift, especially in the bedroom, and thinking otherwise is a huge mistake. But despite this idea, Bustle's Teresa Newsome, a Domestic Violence Victim Advocate and a Planned Parenthood-Certified Responsibly Sexuality Educator, found that, when she spoke with couples, many women wondered if their vaginas were normal, while their counterparts didn't seem to care. They also thought shedding pounds would lead to a better sex life, and still their significant others were not having it. According to Woman's Day, your sexual partner just wants to see you comfortable in your own skin. Along with them finding confidence as sexy, they're also not interested in self-esteem issues overlapping with doing the deed. Here are six things you should never do or say while naked, because good sex is confident sex.

1. "Don't Look At Me"

  DO look at me. All of me. This body is providing you with a lot of intimacy, passion and fun. Nothing is sexier than naked me in this moment, so take it all in.

2. "I Hate My..."

The media doesn't get to brainwash us with what is or isn't sexy. We get to decide what is. And if we believe it, we become it. Our bodies are perfect every day and especially in this moment. And, let's be real ... self-hate just kills the mood.

3. "Do You Like My..."

Now is not the time to ask for approval on body parts. It's simply another way your self-esteem issues come to the surface, and your partner can see right through that. Being uncomfortable naked is normal, but the more you baby that feeling, the harder it will be to overcome it and love the skin you're in. [bctt tweet="Never Do or Say These 6 Things When You're Naked"]

4. "Turn The Lights Off"

It's one thing if you want things to get a little steamier by dimming the lights to set the mood, but if your'e doing it to hide yourself, that's a whole other problem. If someone judges you in the light, they don't deserve to have you in the darkness.

5. "Sorry About My [X Body Part]"

Vanessa Marin for Xojane says that getting naked for someone else invites in the focus on pleasure and sensation. And there won't be any of that if you're zeroing in on your "imperfections." Marin suggests having your partner appreciate the part of you that you find the least attraction in order to prove to you that you're beautiful and sexy just the way you are.

6. "You Don't Want To See That"

That's interesting, because typically when people want to see you naked, they certainly do want to see "that." If you're cutting off your partner from certain parts of your body, you're also cutting them off from a better sexual experience. Do you ever say or do any of these things when you're naked with your partner? Source: Bustle [caption id="attachment_118224" align="alignleft" width="100"] @BodyRockTV[/caption] [caption id="attachment_118223" align="alignleft" width="100"] @BodyRockOfficial[/caption]