There is nothing greater than finding that one person for you. The person who loves you. The person who cherishes you and your special quirks. The person you can see a real future with. The person you find sexually attractive above all others. The person who makes you feel valued above all else.
What happens when this person appears in your life out of no where? You've met your other half and you are utterly unprepared. You still have too much baggage. You still have too many things you want to do on your own. You still want the adventures of single-hood and no strings sex. Your 20s are a wild time and you aren't interested in settling down.
This meeting wasn't supposed to happen yet. We try to control the timing of things in life but obviously we cannot.
So many emotions happen
when you meet your soulmate about 10 years too soon!
You're always filled of anxiety.
You've met this wonderful person but don't want a relationship right now. But you can't help but wonder, what if you never meet anyone so wonderful again?
You don't want to waste your shot at love but you also don't want to waste your 20s. Deep cutting anxiety inducing ideas.
You'd love to hide this person away until you're ready.
You know their perfect, you know they'll give you the life you deserve. Unfortunately, you can't pause this person's life while you go out in search of your own.
So, you push them away.
You push to make the end easier on you both. If you are distant and cold and they end things, you're off the hook right?
This move fails to work when the person really loves you. They see through your BS and will call you on it.
Then, you end up filled of resentment and self hatred.
You're in love and you don't want to be. You were just fine. You had your friends and your work. School maybe. You had it all. A wild wicked good time and no one to be accountable to. This person swooped in and took all this away. You are resentful.
But you know they don't deserve your resentment and you hate yourself for feeling it.
You were living wild and free like you had nothing to lose and now all of a sudden you do. And that scares the hell out of you.
Did you meet 'the one' too soon? Did you stick it out or have you always wondered if they were the one that got away?
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