September 14, 2015
The Unspeakable Pain Of Loving Someone Who Loves Someone Else
This kind of pain is more than just liking the guy who's dating the popular girl in high school, or being constantly friend-zoned. This kind of pain runs right down to your roots, and threatens to break you.
Being in love with someone whose affection lies within the heart of another is hard. Whether you are hung up on a person from a past relationship who has moved on, or never got the courage to tell the now married person in front of you that you've loved them from the day you met them.
You feel lost, and that the potential life you always wished you would have is no longer in your grasp. This realization may be the most sobering of all, because now you don't know where to turn. You have to come to terms with those dreams passing away in order to focus on your new, undefined future.
But now is not a time to live in sadness. Your life is a blank canvas, and you can paint on it literally whatever you want. Travel, move somewhere new, start a new fitness routine, fall in love with a new hobby. Sometimes great tragedies in life can be gifts in disguise.
There is no quick fix for pain, and no pressure to move on entirely by any deadline. Healing is a process that will undoubtedly take time. But to heal should be your goal.
Can you relate to this feeling? How did you learn to heal from a past love?
Source: Elite Daily
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Being in love with someone whose affection lies within the heart of another is hard. Whether you are hung up on a person from a past relationship who has moved on, or never got the courage to tell the now married person in front of you that you've loved them from the day you met them.
You feel lost, and that the potential life you always wished you would have is no longer in your grasp. This realization may be the most sobering of all, because now you don't know where to turn. You have to come to terms with those dreams passing away in order to focus on your new, undefined future.
But now is not a time to live in sadness. Your life is a blank canvas, and you can paint on it literally whatever you want. Travel, move somewhere new, start a new fitness routine, fall in love with a new hobby. Sometimes great tragedies in life can be gifts in disguise.
There is no quick fix for pain, and no pressure to move on entirely by any deadline. Healing is a process that will undoubtedly take time. But to heal should be your goal.
Can you relate to this feeling? How did you learn to heal from a past love?
Source: Elite Daily
Do you follow us on Instagram?
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