In today's world, s*x is everywhere. With our growing comfort levels, we are devising new (or new to us) and exciting ways to get each other to the orgasm promised land. But sometimes, in our efforts to display our prowess, and get our partners off, we look past, brush aside and forget that sometimes the most effect moves are the most simple.
When you were first exploring your s*xuality, getting to 'third base' or having someone manually stimulate your genitals was a big deal. Why should that change? Here are 6 reasons that being fingered should be brought back into the repertoire!
1. You Have More Control Than With Your Tongue
While oral s*x seems to get all the glory, it is overrated for many. Fingers are more dexterous than the tongue. You can monitor your partner's response and know exactly what it was you did that made her squeal. Besides, when using your hands you can penetrate your partner vaginally, or anally, or stimulate the clitoris, or do all three at the same time! We don't care who you are, that just isn't possible with a tongue.
2. For Some It's A Necessity
For some people, oral s*x doesn't work in terms of achieving orgasm. Some require stronger or more direct stimulation which can be done using the fingers. And lets not forget that it is a particularly effective from of foreplay so if you are having heteros*xual s*x, it can make penetration much more enjoyable for both parties.
3. You Can Really Go For It
Despite what you may think you know about the clitoris, some women really get off on penetration. If you are one of these woman, oral s*x just won't do it for you. When using your fingers, you can go soft and slow or throw caution to the wind and just give'r. It is up to you and your partner's needs.
4. You Can Do It In More Positions
Oral and penetrative s*x are limited by the alignment of body parts. Hands and arms have a much greater range and so you aren't nearly as limited.
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5. And More Locations...
It is easy in many positions but it also good for getting the job done quickly. You can get whatever stimulation you need and depending on what you have on, you may not even need to remove any clothes. It is good for quick and spontaneous shared moments.
6. You Can Hit The Big G
You may not have found G-spot yet or be really sure what that would mean for you to but one thing is certain: you increase your chances of finding it through fingering. While there are certainly s*x positions that can stimulate the G-spot, every single go-to manual on the subject begins by telling you to insert two fingers and make a "come hither" motion. It is a direct and straightforward way to explore.
So, make room in your s*x life to explore this type of stimulation. You can give it a go on your own or enlist the help of your partner. Remind yourself how fun your fingers can be!
Do you agree? Is this an underrated s*x act?
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