You've Found Someone Incredible But You Can't Shake That Nagging "But...."

Give yourself a pat on the back! All those hours of online window shopping, of blind dates, of talking to strange people in bars has paid off and you've found someone incredible. You're grateful you've found someone so into you. But, now, you're fighting an internal war with yourself because you aren't sure you're sold on him. It is a loop and you're stuck. You find yourself telling people about how wonderful he is and then following it up with your nagging qualifiers. Maybe it is his job, his looks, or something you can't define. Whatever it is, you find yourself saying 'He's great but [insert whatever here]." Don't panic. It is okay to feel this way. All of this means you are figuring out what you want in love. It seems crazy that you'd walk away from growing something with someone so great but if you aren't sure, you are free to walk away. Sometimes it is better to walk away from someone because you aren't certain than it is to stay because you can't find a good reason to leave. Maybe you are only meant to be friends with this person, that isn't a let down or a consolation, that is sometimes just the way it is. Settling isn't good for you. Don't be afraid of your feelings, listen to them. If you want to pursue a relationship with someone, you'll know. If you haven't found what you are looking for just yet, know you are getting closer. Look at dating as an exciting opportunity to learn more. Besides, you never really know, the next person you date could be everything you've always wanted. The next person may mean no more 'buts.' Isn't that worth the wait? h/t: Thought Catalog Do you follow us on Instagram? [caption id="attachment_100850" align="alignnone" width="100"]snapchat snapcode code @BodyRockTV[/caption]

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